Sex Flow Chart and A Little Life Update

in Doodles, fnord, sadhana and dharma, wisdom

I wish I had a cleaner copy of this image, youdopians. From what I can read, it’s pretty funny. I totally forgot from where I found this. If anyone knows, please let me know. I want to credit the site, and the original image maker (good luck, I know).

Busy as a beaver still. Money starting to happen. Opportunities piling up.  I have business cards for the first time in a very long while. My god.  My native ability to write in SEO is making the blogs I created a few months ago start to pay off.

We’ve been using a project management program that organizes one’s emails, contacts, and tasks. I hate it. It works wonderfully. I hate it. I am much more efficient with it. I hate it. I’ve wrestling with the issue of selling ad space, limited ad space, on a site that has half a million page views daily, to a member who can only spend fifty bucks.  The original model was $25 per 50,000 pageviews. Sounds great. Is great. 50,000 page views lasts you a few hours. Then people would feel cheated, even when told in giant flaming letters ten galaxies high, ‘We get 400-500,000 page views daily”.  So… we upped the minimum to $50 and changed to a pay per click model. That works better, but now the new minimum ($50) only lasts a day.  I input an ad last night at 9:30pm, and it was gone ten hours later. 125 clicks, gone. It’s a good thing, but… one is faced with the conundrum. How to pay the thousands a month to run a site with 36,000 members (since January 08), and 400 new ones a day… a site based on community, and openness, and not being another corporate bullshit site.

I love it. I love the site. I love the people. I love the scene. I love kinky things. Kinky people tend to be more interesting.  I love working from home. I even love working 18 hours a day, for the success of my family and our business. It’s nice.

The site is worth a good 20,000 a month in ad revenue, if we whored it out (did the usual industry bit, with header and footer ads, and shop pages)….

so far so good. Power to the people. I want to own a home, and a car. Angel/Devil. I’ve been choosing virtue more lately… probably in rebellion of the industry in which I am thriving. I am thriving. It’s all coming together.

Things have a groove now, a rhythm.  The site for which I do the marketing (along with Kiki) is starting to come together. It’s a wonderful life.  It’s nice to earn money from the sweat of my brow.  I’m going to watch television. I realized last night, that I hadn’t watched a show in weeks. I had lost my chrono sync w/ society, like that French guy they put in the cave for a year.

night night.

4 Comments

4 Comments

  1. Hey, my friend–glad to hear things are really taking off for you and Kiki! Sending good vibes your way that things continue to go well!

  2. Elizabeth

    Humm…. choosing virtue and things are working well for you… :-)

    I am so glad things are working out… How about putting an ad in for an amount of time and then charging for the clicks? I don’t know if that would work or not.

    Loves!

  3. Glad things are working out for you. Miss you.

  4. Elizabeth

    your link for ‘sweat of your brow has /com in it… :-)

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